Happy Alice Day!

It’s certainly been a while since I have last made an update to this blog.  While I might sometimes think of a few ideas I want to communicate on this blog, along with also researches I want to upload here and news article that are somehow related to our issues.  I have yet to clearly organize myself on how to go about on it, as well as accomplish what I intend of doing this blog, as part of other things I do and attempt to do to further the discussion on MAP related issues that needs to be solved, as well as Children’s Rights issues that people often choose to deliberately drive under the bus or just plainly dismiss it by saying there isn’t anything to be fixed, nor even to be spoken of the issue.

Stating that, I will try to keep being updated here, or at least coming by whenever I get a chance or two to update on the blog.  I also have my life circumstances going on about, but nothing out of the ordinary for a person my age.  So worry not, for personal-wise, I am ok, just going, or attempting to go through transitions that requires economical effort and time from my behalf mostly.

I wish you all a Happy Alice Day and for to be happy of who you are in your life, even if our current times try to convince of things we are nothing like out of ignorance and hate for our sexual attraction that, whether individuals like it or not, it is unchosen traits that we were born with and nothing can be done to change them.  Despite of that, and regardless on your specific stance on contact, you can also live happily as a MAP and/or happily with a MAP, if that is your case.  Just like everyone else, we are all individuals that simply want to live and be accepted, which is not to be confused by lowering ourselves just because of being attracted to children or because our opinions are different (even between each other).  We all have our differences and addressing them in a violent manner will never lead to a true understanding of why it is so and then agreeing so on coinciding points.

For those whom are reading this and are struggling with your attraction with children, I want to let you all know that you guys are not alone in this and definitely not the only ones that have gone through this.  There is nothing wrong of what you’re feeling and there’s no reason to think you’re somehow a threat of any kind to anyone because of it.  There are communities around that can also help for coming to a better understanding with yourself, some resources are listed in my “Websites of Interest” list on the Homepage.  Alternatively, you could always reach me via filling out the Contact form in this site (which would just send me an e-mail) and though I may take a while to get back to you, I will surely will.

Another reading I like sharing for similar things, which was redacted by Yure and the contribution of other MAPs (I’m sorry my memory is so awful to remember) is the MAP Starting Guide which helps being acquainted with the concepts used in the communities you might stumble upon when trying to reach more of us and also to better come in term with yourself, if necessary with a more factual-based approach of the attraction and the feelings developed because of it.

Anyways, I wish you all a very Happy Alice Day and for all you to try the very best to not only enjoy this day, but every day because, while we certainly didn’t get to be born in an understanding time, we still have to try to make the best out of ourselves and our situations.  No matter what others constantly choose to interpret us as, it won’t change that at the end we are just who we are, nothing less, nor more, which isn’t a bad thing, even if some try to say we are out of spite and false sense of moral superiority nonsense.

 

 

14 Replies to “Happy Alice Day!”

  1. At last, you’re back, PPF… I was afraid you have given up and left us all!

    Good to hear from you (or, rather, to read from you 😉 ) again!

    Happy Alice Day to you as well! 🙂

  2. Ay, thanks for the pingback, beloved. Happy Alice Day. I missed your updates, thanks for keeping us informed on your life and activity. The other person who helped me writing the Guide was Hikari. And some people on BC helped me to review it. Steve Diamond also helped out. A full re-write is overdue, however, because of some definition mistakes pointed by Filip30, which I only fixed partially. Thanks for existing.

    1. Thank you for existing as well. :3 Also, I’m Princesa Serena now on Discord, in case you were wondering. Oh, and I see. I still owe you the translation for the guide to Spanish. I still haven’t gotten the chance.

  3. I am subscribed by email to your posts so I get the updates as they come, I would advise everybody to do the same, using a privacy focused email service like ProtonMail or Tutanota, it is better than visiting the site all the time.

    There aren´t too many blogs like yours on the Internet, you make a difference. It is important to have the other side of the story and not just bigots spreading their hatred against pedosexuals.

    I tried to get your blog added to the links section of an ontopic forum but they told me that they can´t add it because they don´t link to “pro-contact” blogs.

    I don´t know if this blog is pro-contact or not but apparently advocating such thing is illegal in some countries. Myself I would prefer if the blog was more about understanding and myth breaking, than advocating any kind of contact, which I am against, but it is your blog, do it your way of course.

    I also wanted to suggest if you can add SSL to your site. Contact me by email if you want help with this.

  4. POSTDATA:

    I clicked on the link you have on the site to “Suicidal Pedophiles”, a site that encourages Pedosexuals to “kill themselves”, WOW, WOW

    That is so sick!! Where is your humanity man? Really? Instead of helping out people with mental problems you want them to kill themselves?

    I don´t think that even deserves a discussion of any kind. Very disappointing! I don´t think I will be following this blog anymore.

    1. Allow me to clear a very big misunderstanding you seem to have. But before that, commenting based on your other comment and to answer your question, yes, I am Pro-Contact. I think advocacy of contact itself is also breaking away with some of the myths you are talking about, but perhaps we might disagree in that aspect, which is ok. Never mind that though, I want to address about my support towards SuiPed in particular. I’ll make it simple, and I hope I don’t come out as harsh, but as understanding. Do I encourage MAPs to commit suicide? No, I do not in any way whatsoever, I would much prefer if all pedophiles could live peacefully and express themselves in all ways possible without any negative consequence. Why do I support SuiPed, you ask? Then that’s because I support the availability of suicide to anyone in general, not just for pedophiles. I think suicide should be legal, not that pedophiles should be ridden of particularly. Also, for further questions on what SuiPed actually stands for, visit this page: https://www.suiped.org/wiki/Main_Page

      Let me again assure you though, that I do not push for pedophiles to “kill themselves”, but for suicide to be legally accessible for those that wishes to end their lives, which I find disheartening, of course, but not something I should force people from not going through if they really want to do it. It’s a sad world for us, and I don’t think I have the right to prevent people from leaving this place. I sincerely apologize if this position of mine still somehow upsets you after reading this reply.

      However, I am always open for discussion about this issue in particular, so feel free to make a rebuttal if you must.

      1. Also, to further comment on this, I do by all ways prefer for those wishing suicide to be instead helped, but even said “help” doesn’t always get rid of some individual’s wishing to die, and I respect their decision if they longer wish to exist in this forsaken land. I do try all I can to prevent people from feeling like that, for I know how it feels to want to die so bad.

  5. Hello,

    Thank you for your reply. I am not pro-contact but as you said, it is ok to have disagreements, no problem with that, what I find hard to stomach is supporting a pro-suicide campaign, regardless of who it is, I am of course, against the suicide of anybody.

    I think that you have very little understanding of what depression is, a mental illness, and basically you are just encouraging people suffering from an illness to commit suicide instead of seeking treatment. It is sick to do that, and I hope you never find yourself in that situation.

    Most decent human beings campaign to help out others suffering from a mental illnesses, they encourage them to pick up hobbies, go out with friends or whatever, it really needs some kind of special evil being to encourage a persorn to go and commit suicide.

    Furthermore, most hosting companies, have terms and conditions that do not allow that kind of content, so while I support free speech and sites like yours 100%, as a human being I can´t just stand by and watch how twisted minds encourage people with mental illness to commit suicide, it sickens my stomach.

    I believe I might be able to save lives by taking that site down, not yours but theirs, I know who is hosting it and I will report them, it will be up to the host to decide, and I know it is a free speech host but this is the death of human beings what we are talking about, it will be up to them, I will be able to go to sleep knowing that I did my part and if anybody dies it will not be on me.

    1. “I think that you have very little understanding of what depression is, a mental illness, and basically you are just encouraging people suffering from an illness to commit suicide instead of seeking treatment. It is sick to do that, and I hope you never find yourself in that situation.”

      Well, I never did say I don’t support treatment for depression to be fair. Also, I do know what depression is since I did have/still kind of have depression even now… So to answer that, no, I don’t think I’m encouraging people with depression to just go ahead and commit suicide, I mean, even I haven’t yet, but I honestly think that forbidding anybody from ending their own life when they simply no longer wish to live, and say, they tried everything else, then I don’t really see the way I can just tell them to suck it up and force them live… I know I wouldn’t like it if it were denied to me if I were to find myself at that situation. However, as you say, I do think that looking for treatment and help is foremost, but, ultimately, having them decided to give up, what is my right to deny something that even I wouldn’t like to be denied were I that needing of ending my life?

      “Furthermore, most hosting companies, have terms and conditions that do not allow that kind of content, so while I support free speech and sites like yours 100%, as a human being I can´t just stand by and watch how twisted minds encourage people with mental illness to commit suicide, it sickens my stomach.

      I believe I might be able to save lives by taking that site down, not yours but theirs, I know who is hosting it and I will report them, it will be up to the host to decide, and I know it is a free speech host but this is the death of human beings what we are talking about, it will be up to them, I will be able to go to sleep knowing that I did my part and if anybody dies it will not be on me.”

      Hmmm, I’ll be honest with you. I know the guy as well and I would actually go for trying to discuss with the folks on the site about this topic instead of trying to shut them down altogether. Consider that there are currently pedophiles whom are depressed in that forum and perhaps your presence in that site and bringing why you are skeptical and against the movement might help to bring rethinking within the positions there, whereas if you simply opt to eliminate their site then they will probably remain in their current mindset which is something you say you want to prevent them from thinking, but for that they would need to know what you think first and, of course, why it is so.

      Anyways, I do agree on the moral position of not letting people incite others into killing themselves, just like I would condone anyone for inciting children to do things against their will and consent. However, me also being in that forum and having participated in it, I do not exactly see the “encouraging to kill themselves” logic applied there, it’s more of a discussion of why suicide should be available to some of us due to our current circumstances, etc (which I understand it’s something you might not agree on but, nonetheless, it is fundamental to understand the difference of this because this will be seen as you explore the forum: 1. some using suicide as a way of expressing our current state; 2. those are simply depressed and tired). Anyways, I understand your position, and even if we might have a few disagreements on our views of suicide legislation, if I may, I would like to request what I wrote above, from you. To engage in the forum and bring your points into discussion there, then if you do feel unsatisfied anyways and feel that is heavy a burden to simply dismiss the existence of the site, then I won’t blame you for reporting it.

      Thanks for replying to me. I appreciate these kind of talks.

      1. I am really busy in real life, which is why it has taken me this long to reply.

        The last thing I need is to join yet another forum so I will not be engaging with them, and I don´t feel it is my responsibility to go out of my way to a suicidal online forum and try to convince people there to get treatment, unless somebody places that burden on me, like it has happened here accidentally discovering that site, I am not going to go out to search for problems to fix.

        Of course it would real nice to help people out, and to help out animals in need and to help out kids in poverty and everybody else in the World, but superpowers is not something I possess and I am not in a position to be able to help everybody, I have serious problems of my own to deal with too.

        But I will not be reporting the site yet to their host as it needs time to do that, I need to make sure first that they really encourage others to die, and fill in the report, maybe in a few days.

        1. Understood then. I wasn’t meaning to place the burden on you, just suggesting it in order to make a full informed decision on what to do with said issue.

          Don’t worry about taking time to reply, I am not bothered by that and I understand if you’re busy.

          Anyways, I wish you to be well and hopefully to see you around sometimes. Take care.

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